Wednesday, January 23, 2013

jamaican me crazy... |letter #58|

Dear Everton, 





I found you in the cut of the taxi station, or rather you were taken to me after being persistently "stalked" by your big and burly brother, another taxi driver, who scared the crap out of me. I didn't really trust you yet. You didn't have on the uniform on like the 15 other fancy drivers in the front of the station and I couldn't see your cab to verify if you had the red plate in the back. The ship director warned us that if there was no red plate, there was no safety in that cab in Montego Bay, Jamaica. I didn't want to take any chances and have the ill fate of my life and seven other peers on my conscience. But, I trusted you enough to take the risk, or rather I trusted the price. For twenty dollars round trip per person, we could travel to Ocho Rios for the day and experience the sandy beaches, Dunn's River crystal waterfalls, Margarittaville, Dolphin Cove, and the fresh Jamaican beef patties. Compared to the $30 and more prices the more official cab drivers were offering in conjunction to the fact that we were semi-broke college students, we struck gold. Thus, we decided to get in your car.

The spirits of the day were lively. This was basically the first country that we could explore. It was the start of our semester at sea. I had been to Jamaica twice before, so the crowded raucous roads filled with hustling individuals and a lack of serious traffic rules did not catch me by surprise like it did everyone else. I was used to it and Haiti was worse. The eight of us riding through the Jamaican city held excitement. We were fascinated by the Patois language and burning hot weather, the sweat that spiked our backs while riding in a minivan with all the windows down and the adventure that lay before us. We were ready to experience the day. With one male friend with us, the 7 of us ladies felt confident in doing whatever we chose. As we sat in your van driving through the city, we each pondered our own immediate aspirations.


We didn't arrive in Ocho Rios until almost two hours later and by this time our zeal had waned. I questioned you on the time of travel and you stated you didn't want to risk getting any speed tickets. I could respect that but it was near 1pm and we had to return to the ship by 4:30pm to depart at 5pm. That left us with only 2 hours to explore before we needed to hit the long road back to the port. It also turned out that Ocho Rios left us with little options to explore. The Dolphin Cove was $160 per person and there was no Margaritaville like our ship guide had promised. Thus, we were left with Dunn's River Waterfalls costing us $20 for entry and ensuring us access to a clean beach, food, shopping, and its water activities.  Gladly, I got to eat my Jamaican patty and sip on strong Jamaican rum easily bringing me back to good spirits. You stayed with us the entire time to make sure we remained safe.

After eating, we decided to head to the falls. It turned out that it cost an extra $7 for the shoes to climb it and naturally we objected and continued on our way to simply look at them. You promised that it would be worth and even struck a deal with the sales ladies for us to pay $5 instead. We thanked you for your efforts but still continued. You stayed there to wait on us. We had made the right choice. The falls were beautiful. Many pictures later, we stripped down to our suits and entered them without the shoes and enjoyed the icy richness of the water. We ended up running into more people from the boat and cheered on as two members from our group climbed the falls without shoes. We felt free and sneaky, but happy. Everything had worked out. To our even more of our amazement, the beach down below the fall was even more outstanding. There, we met more friends and enjoyed our last 30 minutes swimming away in crystal blue water.


The trip back to the ship was my favorite part. After what seemed like a long day, it was characterized with random naps and light conversation. You were so delightful to listen to when you talked. You had been a real rasta but changed your life to work to provide for your family. You had showed characteristics of a gentlemen that had made us ladies feel safe and taken care of. You even smoked while you drove saying that it was truly a custom there in Jamaica. I was left completely assumed. Close to the port, you let us stop to shop and because it was you, the store immediately gave us a 60% discount on their merchandise. I got a purse for a very great price.

When we finally returned to the cab station, we embraced you with pictures, thank-you's, and best wishes from grateful hearts. You had made sure we had a good time and remained positive and providing throughout the entire time. Somehow someway, you became more than a sweet memory but a reflection of a good man. You hadn't even counted the money when we handed it to you. It wasn't until we returned to the ship that we found out that your license had expired 6 years ago. All we could really do was laugh. Until next time...


Love,
Stephanie

Sunday, January 6, 2013

my gift to you... |letter #57|

Dear My Dearest Sister & Friend, 


My next post was supposed to be about my journey in Jamaica, but this serious situation has come up to my knowledge and it must be addressed in the best way I know how, through my written words. I was about to call you about two minutes ago, but I stopped myself because I knew it wouldn't be enough. You deserve the best of me, not the utter silence I would have offered on the other side. I needed you to truly know how much your loss has affected me and how much your person has uplifted mine since the day our friendship sprout. Sister, I am truly sorry for the loss of such a mentor, leader, model, and friend in your life. As amazed as I am at the loss of this person in your life, I am more amazed at the person you must be for God to allow this to happen now. In other words, you are where God wants you to be while many of us are still crawling. God so called you great enough, underneath his strength and grace, to bear this great burden. You are indefinitely blessed beyond measure. You have the strength, the wisdom, the fight, the hope, the faith, and the passion to carry this. I admire your spirit. I am humbled by your story. 


My heart yearns to embrace yours. I cannot in my best attempt describe to you how truly of a light you have been on my life. Your presence makes me happy and your smile gives me hope. I enjoy the rare moments when I run into you on campus. Your happy nature is contagious. There are many times when you have made me chose to forget why I was so sad. You always make me laugh. Your unique way of speech and passion for life have brought me excitement. These times from foolery in the office have been more humorous with you by my side. You are so caring, sister. When you ask me how I am doing, in my heart I know you truly desired an honest answer. You remember the things I've told you. You make me feel valuable, as if my presence is just as bright as yours to mine. Sister, you are special. You are beautiful. You are gifted. You are uplifting. You are His. 

After this, I still don't feel like it's good enough. I still seek the words to fully describe to you how strongly you affect people and how powerfully your existence blesses those around you. I wish I knew the perfect line that would summarize it all. But I know this, God holy hand is on you and your family to guide, to heal, to nurture, to strengthen, to hold, to touch, to protect, and to love. I know you miss her, that's absolutely normal. Just know that she is looking onto you with pride in her eyes, love in her heart, and a legacy in her hand for you to accept. Don't stop now. God has great plans for you and has equipped you for all lows. Love is your ally and friends are your shields. We will play our part, just don't ever change and don't ever stop the fight. 



I love you Sister. 

Love,
Stephanie 

back again to tell the tale... |letter #56|

Dear Readers,


I've been gone for a while. I was actually out experiencing the world and living out my dreams through study abroad.  I have been blessed with the opportunity to travel to 10 different South American, Central American, and Caribbean countries on a 25-day cruise voyage while taking a sociology class on  ship.  I was able to experience other cultures and interact with dozens of people I would probably never have the chance to meet at another time. I was able to see wealth and poverty in the same place and note the various ways of foreign life. I was able to network with those from my neighboring institutions and professionals in my prospective field. I was granted the opportunity to share my own Haitian culture with the eight hundred on the boat through spoken word and dance and receive confirmation of a well articulated attempt to enlighten my fellow shipmates.  I learned of the rituals of Kwanza and performed an appropriate step routine to demonstrate its vibrant energy and hidden movements. I made friends and learned that there was more than what met the eye. I flirted with incoming knowledge, tasted and saw that it was good and could apply it to my life. I ate well balanced meals and actively exercised my body through yoga and zumba classes. I spent my first Christmas and New Year away from my family to gain an experience of a lifetime, one that I hope to hand to my own one day. 

Semester at Sea Enrichment Voyage 2012 has been so good to me. I may not enjoyed every meal or the consistent and sometimes rather violent rocking of the ship on water, but the memories made and lessons learned have been due to this very experience. I spent long nights in heated conversations and calculated card games and danced to the rhythms of the sea. I paid homage to a priceless organization that gained me sisters and brothers who understand the meaning of the boat life. I watched movies I loved and was intellectually stimulated by passionate classroom debates. I spent a lot of money on pieces that would be mine to treasure forever. I learned how to become a better writer and that I still have some issues to address.  I picked up silly behaviors of my peers, a little sister to mentor, and the fact that my best friend truly shares my crazy weird.  I was inspired and inspired, was touched and touched. Julian Bond become my right hand man. Semester at Sea, I am forever thankful to thee. 


Yet, this does not even encompass my experiences in any of the ten countries I visited.  I never did mention Columbia, Peru, or Nicaragua but each country deserves its due assessment in its own separate blog. Thus, begins the chronicles. I look forward to sharing.  

Love, 
Stephanie